The main seducer tool: The business card – seduction technique
July 28, 2012 by Bernard Dufresne: Administrator
Business card is a very important tool to give your contact details when there is no time or when you don’t know the person enough to give your contact details. For instance, you meet a woman at a shop and she does not have time. In this situation, you would give her your business card. Some so-called pickup artists say that men should get a phone number. I disagree with this point of view. If you get a phone number, it does not mean a woman is willing to do anything with you. I know it because this issue happened to me. I called the woman and i had hard times on the phone. She was very unfriendly. It was just not working. It was a total waste of time. Picking up a woman on the phone is like picking up a woman online. It is a myth. If a woman got your phone number and if she calls you up, it means she is looking for something. On the other hand, when you call a woman, you never know what the feedback will be. In my experience, seduction only happens in face-to-face situation.
The business card is also efficient when a chaperon or other people surround a woman. Just give your business card and leave. Today, business cards are so cheap so that you can order arty ones and distribute it.
The business card is important. You should always be ready to have several business cards in your pocket. Be ready to give it to an interlocutor at any time. Be also ready not to succeed every time. There is always a percentage of feedback that is low as compared to the number of distributed business cards. Thus, Distribute as many business cards as you can. Don’t force women to call you. Add your skype, yahoo, msn on the business card. Mention you have a facebook account and add your email for sure. Many women are very shy today, and prefer to analyze your facebook account before contacting you. So, it may be useful to put some public information on your facebook profile. They also may prefer chatting before meeting again.
Business card is so useful. I remember once in Israel, I was with one friend in a bar, and a woman came to speak to us and wanted to speak with french people. Suddenly, her brother showed up and he was angry saying something like “she is an easy woman and uses to go out with many men”. He was upset for no reasons and very cynical. He left and I believe he asked her to leave. It was an awkward situation. This woman was around 25 years old and there were really no problem with her. She was nice and attractive. The chaperon left first and she followed him outside. At that moment, I could have given a business card if I had one. The brother would not have been a problem afterwards. In fact, he was playing the role of the chaperon. You see in this situation that the woman mindset is not the problem. Fences are often around women.